As a gay man, and a outspoken supporter of "sex positive" movements, understanding my own sexual health has been a journey. Performing a prostate and testicular self-exam weren't things I learned to do until very recently. Yes, admittedly because I'm now partnered to a doctor... Still, after speaking with some of the men in my life it shocked me to realize that, regardless of our varying levels of sexual activity, very few of us knew how to perform the neccessary self-exams,